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Book Review for ” The Power of Full Engagement”

Book Review for “The Power of Full Engagement” Having recently received my Mental First Aider certificate, I have been reviewing some past mental health and leadership resources. This message is timeless, and relevant even 20 years after it was first written. Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz offer The Power of Full Engagement to demonstrate that managing energy, not time, is the key to becoming physically energized, emotionally connected, mentally focused, and spiritually aligned on and off the job. The authors present a holistic approach to development, renewal, and leadership that provides powerful insights and incentives to individuals in every walk of life. While some of the book does pertain to our roles as leaders in organizations, it definetly sketches a profile of how their principles apply to the whole person. “Leaders are the stewards of organizational energy—in companies, organizations and even in families. They inspire or demoralize others first by how effectively they manage their own energy and next by how well they mobilize, focus, invest and renew the collective energy of those they lead. The skillful management of energy, individually and organizationally, makes possible something that we call ‘full engagement.” Consider the opening paragraphs of this book. “We live in digital time. Our rhythms are rushed, rapid fire and relentless, our days carved up into bits and bytes. We celebrate breadth rather than depth, quick reaction more than considered reflection. We skim across the surface, alighting for brief moments at dozens of destinations but rarely remaining for long at any one. We race through our lives without pausing to consider who we really want to be or where we really want to go. We’re wired up but we’re melting down.” “Most of us are just trying to do the best that we can. When demand exceeds our capacity, we begin to make expedient choices that get us through our days and nights, but take a toll over time. We survive on too little sleep, wolf down fast foods on the run, fuel up with coffee and cool down with alcohol and sleeping pills. Faced with relentless demands at work, we become short-tempered and easily distracted. We return home from long days at work feeling exhausted and often experience our families not as a source of joy and renewal, but as one more demand in an already overburdened life.”   The authors, Loehr and Schwartz, developed a Corporate Athlete Training System based in 25 years of research with some the world’s greatest athletes to help them perform more effectively under brutal competitive pressures. They recommend the following principles: Principle 1: Full engagement requires drawing on four separate but related sources of energy: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Principle 2: Because energy diminishes both with overuse and with underuse, we must balance energy expenditure with intermittent energy renewal. Principle 3: To build capacity we must push beyond our normal limits, training in the same systematic way that elite athletes do. Principle 4: Positive energy rituals-highly specific routines for managing energy-are the key to full engagement and sustained high performance.Making change that lasts requires a 3-step process: Define Purpose Face the Truth Take Action. The authors describe the connectivity of the 4 sources of energy (physical, emotional, mental and spiritual) in  “The Mind and Body Are One”. Two key words are used, flexibility and resilience. Notice: Physical strength, endurance, flexibility and resilience we readily grasp at the physical level, however these markers also are applicable to our mental, emotional, and spiritual capacity.     “Emotional flexibility reflects the capacity to move freely and appropriately along a wide spectrum of emotions rather than responding rigidly or defensively. Emotional resilience is the ability to bounce back from experiences of disappointment, frustration and even loss.   Mental endurance is a measure of the ability to sustain focus and concentration over time, while mental flexibility is marked by the capacity to move between the rational and the intuitive and to embrace multiple points of view.   Spiritual strength is reflected in the commitment to one’s deepest values, regardless of circumstance and even when adhering to them involves personal sacrifice. Spiritual flexibility, by contrast, reflects the tolerance for values and beliefs that are different than one’s own, so long as those values and beliefs don’t bring harm to others.  In short, to be fully engaged requires strength, endurance, flexibility and resilience in all dimensions.” From their research the authors offer many cases examples to demonstrate that their approaches are factual and that they work. It’s a breakthrough discovery and could save careers and help transform organizations if their approach is followed. I say “if” because, like any new regime, this approach will run into a set of corporate obstacles, principally the resistance of top management in finding and implementing these ideas. Some of what the authors advises, wise though it may be, will run right into the face of traditions in the workplace many are unwilling to change. The authors plainly apply one of Aristotle his leading principles (in medio stat veritute, “virtue lies in the middle”), however, they show that balance is not static–a middle, dead zone–but is found by balancing one extreme (stress) against the other (recovery). That’s the key to full engagement. Stress and recovery have to be done in balance (as with physical exercise) and it is necessary to plunge fully into both to get out of the dead zone in the middle. Most performance in today’s organizations is in this middle ground between rest and stress; but the high achievers stretch their capacity enough to let it bounce back stronger the next time after a reprieve.  Most workers and managers don’t do either: they live and work in a zone of half-tired, half-dozing caused by our culture’s ignorance of–and hostility toward–managing energy naturally and effectively. The back end of the book is devoted to “The Training System” which are chapters that guide the reader to take action and get results. Attitude, rituals, daily tasks, diet, vision, and purpose are analyzed and described. And a summary of the Corporate Athlete caps it

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Useful tips for renovation after a flood

Useful Tips for renovation after a flood After personally being affected by  Nashville Flooding  in 2010 I have decided to write about information that I found useful in my renovation process. I hope this can help others as well.   Useful Tips for Renovation After a Flood Save your hardware on doors and cabinets. Also vent covers ect. These can be cleaned and will save you a great deal of money. Door hardware can run you minumum per door $20.00. If you are matching any part of your kitchen or bath saving the door knobs can save you the hassle of trying to match as well as the money to buy new. If you are matching cabinets to existing upper cabinets pay attention to the following details. Profile of the door- I suggest saving a door so you can match color and style. You may not be able to match exactly if your cabinets are more than 2-3 years old so find the one with the closest outside edge detail that matches. The inside detail is less noticeable. Color and finish of the cabinets.-Remember the finish may have faded with age and sun exposure. Just try to match the best you can. Flush doors or recess doors- This is a big one. When possible take a picture of your cabinets. Look and see if the door goes all the way to the edge or is inset a bit. This can make a difference in the layout of your cabinets as well as the profile look. You want to make sure you choose a look that blends. Choosing insulation– When your house is flooded you need to replace the insulation. There are a couple of basic types of insulation- faced or unfaced. The thickness of insulation usually are R13 R19 R30.Generally speaking you should have the insulation in the inside walls of the house( bathroom areas) unfaced so air can circulate. You would also use unfaced in a crawlspace under the floor. On all outside walls you would want to use faced insulation.The type and thickness of insulation you use depends on the depth of the studs. For instance, with an inside wall 2 x 4 stud you would use R13. Outside walls or garages may be 2 x 6 which you can use R19 and crawl space beams are much deeper so you would use R30 or R19. R19 is used more for cooling and in colder areas and R30 is used more for heat retention in ceilings.The main things is to not use a thickness of insulation that you must cram in the space. This defeats the purpose and cuts off airflow. Tile– There are many different types of tile. A couple of things to keep in mind when choosing tile for your home or office. Ceramic tile is less expensive and can save you money but you want to use that only in areas that are not high traffic. Walls, small bathrooms are perfect for this type of tile. For high traffic areas you will want to use Porcelain, Slate or a solid stone or tile that can handle abrasion and traffic. Pay attention to the cleaning and maintenance of the tile or stone. Some material take more care than others. Nuetralizing and testing your soil after a flood.A flood can ravage a yard–floods can cover your yard in harmful bacteria and often times will damage a yard to the point that it must be reseeded. But lime can help you revive your yard. Lime can help to neutralize harmful bacteria in your yard, add needed calcium to the soil, and lower the acidity of the soil to optimal levels. The beneficial effects of lime can encourage your flood damaged grass to regrow or prepare your soil for reseeding.If you want to have your soil tested for environmental safety call your local health department and they can guide you on how to have that done. Things You’ll Need:30- to 40-lb. bag of dolomitic lime per 5000sqftSoil pH testerdrop spreaderrakewater and hoseStep 1 Use a water hose to rinse away the sediment, left behind from the flood waters, from your flood-damaged yard. Lightly rake the yard to remove any metal, plastic or other foreign items left from the flood. Step 2Take an assessment of your grass to determine if it is healthy enough to be saved. If the lawn has sustained minimal damage–the grass retains much of its green color and the root structure is intact–purchase some dolomitic lime from a local hardware store to disinfect the lawn.The calcium in the lime will also nourish the damaged grass. It is advisable to till and reseed a lawn that has been waterlogged or sediment covered for longer than four days. Step 3Use a soil pH tester to check the acidity of the soil in your yard before reseeding. Set the switch on the tester to the “pH” position, and then stick the probes on the bottom of the tester into your soil. Read the tester’s pH meter to find out the level of acid present in your soil. Test several other spots in your yard to get an idea of how acidic your soil is. This will indicate how much lime you need. Step 4Place the lime into a drop spreader and then distribute the lime evenly across your lawn. Use one 30- to 40-lb. bag of lime for every 2,500-3,5000 square feet of yard space. If your yard’s pH is just barely outside of the optimal level of acidity for the type of grass you will grow, use less lime–try using one bag for every 3,500 to 4,500 square feet of yard space. Step 5Work the lime into the soil with a garden rake. For lawns that are too damaged to revive, use a shovel and garden rake to mix the lime about half a foot down into your yard. Reseed and or fertilize the lawn two weeks after you’ve mixed the lime into your soil. Water Restoration Versus

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Safety tips for Navigating Interior Damage after a disaster

Safety tips for Navigation interior damage after a disaster Climate change has brought on a host of disasters that have left many having to navigate unexpected loss in recent years. Fire,🔥 hurricanes, tornados🌪 and unprecedented floods🌊 have left many wondering what to do after a storm or incident. Safety is a primary issue, as are mental and physical well-being. Your first concern after a disaster is your family’s safety and health. The first thing to do when the initial chaos is over, is to check each person in your house hold for injury.  Unless the injured person is in danger of additional injury, do NOT move them. If your home🏡 has been damaged by the storm, be cautious getting outside.   If you smell gas, open a window and get out of the building as soon as possible. Watch for broken glass, downed power lines, slippery floors, holes in floors, etc.   Once outside, turn off the main gas valve from the outside, if you can.  Call the gas company from a neighbor’s residence or outside if you have a cell phone. Do not use your cell phone📱 inside a damaged building. If you shut off the gas supply at the main valve, you will need a professional to turn it back on. Do not smoke or use oil, gas lanterns, candles, or torches for lighting inside a damaged home until you are sure there is no leaking gas or other flammable materials present. Before reentering a damaged home or building, inspect the outside.   Use a battery-powered flash light🔦 to inspect a damaged home. Turn the flashlight ON OUTSIDE BEFORE entering—the battery may produce a spark that could ignite leaking gas, if present. Use a stick to poke through debris.  Watch for snakes.  Before you enter your home walk carefully around the outside and check for loose power lines, gas leaks and structural damage such as chimney, roof and foundation. If you have any doubts about safety, have your residence inspected by a qualified building inspector or structural engineer before entering. Check the electrical🔌 system unless you are wet, standing in water, or unsure of your safety. If possible, turn off the electricity at the main fuse box or circuit breaker. If the situation is unsafe, leave the building and call for help .You may want to have an electrician inspect your wiring.  Do NOT turn on the lights💡 until you are sure they’re safe to use. If you’ve had water damage and appliances are wet, turn off the electricity at the main fuse box or circuit breaker.  Then, unplug🔌 appliances and let them dry out.  Have appliances checked by a professional before using them again since they may have shorted out. Also, have the electrical system checked by an electrician before turning the power back on. You may also find my Flood Renovation Tips helpful. After personally being affected by the Nashville Flood of 2010, I wrote about my design renovation experience. STAY SAFE!

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